Relationships

[Hiram]

You may say, 'my' girlfriend, boyfriend, lover, fiance, wife or husband, but when you
fall in love do you own someone or you develop special feelings for someone?

Guys, let's get this right so that we can know how far we can go with relationships.
Why do you go nuts when you find your sweetheart in a compromising situation with
another fellow?

Exactly what do you own about a relationship?
Bring it on guys.

Should I say?:
Let's get Civilized.

[scatter]

hehe if you are yet young less than 40 years old just have fun and change woman whenever it's possible :p no love no shit just have fun

[bad_brain]

well, imo there is some form of mutual ownership in a relationship, there is some right of exclusivity for example ("you have sex with me and nobody else")...at least in a healthy relationship.
without that exclusivity it's not a relationship, it's nothing but promiscuity, or in the "best" case "friends with benefits"...but even then no deeper feelings could be involved, and deep feelings (and that includes jealousy) are, at least for me, something that defines as relationship.

[Hiram]

hehe if you are yet young less than 40 years old just have fun and change woman whenever it's possible :p no love no shit just have fun

Oh my God.
Scatter; have you ever asked yourself why you were created?
May be if you don't believe in creation; there are those who believe in the big bang: Ever
asked yourself why you exist?

That is not why we exist. May be something to preserve mankind, but how to manage it!

[scatter]

hehe I exist to enjoy life and find my way to success :p btw am not really that serious especially when it comes to girls , I get bored quickly so I need to change them quickly :p simple and easy

well I forgot to warn you not to listen to me in this subject coz am the last person to be asked about love and serious relationships

[reparto]

Why do you go nuts when you find your sweetheart in a compromising situation with
another fellow?

Can't you trust her to deal with him appropriately? If not then that's the problem...

[cwdykarn]

I tend to agree with BB, the core foundation of a relationship is exclusivity and mutual respect. with out that a relationship is worth close to nothing in my eyes. can you elaborate more on the situation/moment/incident you cought her in? was she in on it?..

[ayu]

"Love is like a fart. If you have to work too hard for it, then it's probably shit" : )

[bad_brain]

and it's even true...

[Hiram]

My my my. Guys!!!
I thought there is a difference between Love and a Relationship. Circumstance can put two
people of opposite sex together. That may not be love, though sometimes true love may
come like this, for people meant for each other.

There are cultures or by religion where a woman is just given to a man. Or a young man
waking up one day and they tell him that they have got him a wife. This can't be love, but
just a relationship.

Okay, among relationships, there can be love, but not all.

When Philosophy comes in, I am afraid to tell you that what you own about a relationship
may not be tangible.

[Hiram]

"Love is like a fart. If you have to work too hard for it, then it's probably shit" : )

This is a comment of someone whose heart was broken.
Cats; what is your story?

[ayu]

This is a comment of someone whose heart was broken.
Cats; what is your story?

Happily married for a few years now and life couldn't be better. What's yours? =)

[Hiram]

Happily married for a few years now and life couldn't be better. What's yours? =)

My story is about knowing how far to go with a relationship, not much different from yours
though. But love being like a fart! That's where my worry is Johnny boy.

...but even then no deeper feelings could be involved, and deep feelings (and that includes jealousy) are, at least for me, something that defines as relationship.

bad_brain is indeed in love, but jealousy may not be a good boundary. It may already be
a critical condition. I mean this is not something you could use to hold onto a
relationship, but something you can use to end one.

[ayu]

My story is about knowing how far to go with a relationship, not much different from yours
though. But love being like a fart! That's where my worry is Johnny boy.

hehe, I'm not sure if you are joking or not ^^