I need some advice...

Asuna · Post by **Asuna** » 17 Aug 2007, 01:41

I know it's strange for me to be saying this, but I'm uber-extremely shy. So shy in fact, that I almost couldn't bear to make a return at the Returns Counter at Wal-Mart. The only people I really talk to are my family and my close friends. The point here is that I like this girl, but I'm too shy to even say hi to her. She talks to me sometimes, but all I could offer is just a bunch of nervously mumbled pointless remarks. Any advice?

Losing_grip · Post by **Losing_grip** » 17 Aug 2007, 01:43

I think you should read this...

http://www.ehow.com/how_2045954_ask-girl-out.html

It might help ya. =]

TheKingOfHearts · Post by **TheKingOfHearts** » 17 Aug 2007, 01:52

dont be insulted what im about to say

1. get your game up. mofu.
2. take a chance we live only once
3. if you want some...go get some
4. girls dont like shy guys..hey its life
5. confident guys get the girl.
6. since you talk to her its like 1000 times easier
7. start by making some quick compliments
8. tell her "Name I really like you"
9. tell her "Would you like to go out with me?"
10. EYE CONTACT. while saying 8-9
11....date bro
12.....if it dosent workout its no the end of the world...

what else you wanna know?

note:
if she talks to you..clearly she likes you...common lets face it
would you talk to a girl your dont know well and you dont like

sternbildchen · Post by **sternbildchen** » 17 Aug 2007, 02:10

7. start by making some quick compliments
9. tell her "Would you like to go out with me?"

-> 7. if you want to compliment don't say anything about her looks. Otherwise you will look wired. Better don't compliment at all.
-> 9. ask "Hey I think we need to get to know each other better. Lets have some coffee together. Want to join me after school?" (Never ask a girl to "go out" with you. When you have never done anything with her alone before!)

I agree on the rest of TKOH points.

TheKingOfHearts · Post by **TheKingOfHearts** » 17 Aug 2007, 07:41

i dont agree about the dont compliment
girls like to feel appreciated and all the other crap i dont care about

i mean dont say she looks pretty or something stupid

say that you like her glasses or cute name tag or something like that
nice hair, shoes, pants, dont say nice shirt cuz she might think you are looking at the 00's

second date
just stare at her and she will ask you whats up is something wrong
and you say nothing you are just so beautiful
then just like smile...no teeth

but thats just a cheap manipulatory trick...that works...

i love the hunt.

sternbildchen · Post by **sternbildchen** » 18 Aug 2007, 07:09

I think we have lots in common TKOH ^^.